This is #7 of a series in which I read correspondence between me and people who have questions, comments, or–more often–misconceptions about asexuality.

This one features a YouTube commenter who says I have a presence on OKCupid because I have a persecution complex and am attempting to get negative attention so I can whine about it. I give an explanation of why doing something you know might get negative attention does NOT constitute doing it FOR THAT REASON, and I deconstruct the concept of blaming the victim.