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    • Misconceptions & Expectations
      • Misconceptions
        • Asexual = virgin, not having sex
        • Claiming asexual people don’t like sex
        • Claiming asexuality is celibacy or abstinence
        • Claiming asexuality is low/no sex drive, no libido
        • Claiming asexuality is a result of sexual abuse, trauma
        • Being called biologically unfit
        • Sexual attraction = only attraction
      • “Sexpectations”
        • Sexual availability expected due to being in a relationship
        • Sexual interest expected due to being a man
        • Sexual availavility expected due to attractiveness
        • Sexual availablility expected due to culture
    • Prejudice & Issues
      • Prejudice, discrimination
        • Issues at home
          • Issues with partner
          • Issues with family members
          • Issues with landlord
          • Being threatened to be kicked out
          • Being kicked out
        • Issues with friends
        • Issues at school
        • Issues at work
        • Issues with healthcare providers
        • Issues within a religious community or authority
        • Issues within LGBT+ community, with members
        • Being viewed as less than human, as robotic
        • Erasure, invisibility
        • Systematic oppression
      • Harassment
        • Bullying
        • Online harassment
        • Sexual harassment
      • Discourse
        • Gaslighting
          • Rape apologism
          • Disregarding being suicidal
          • Accusing of taking resources away from “actual” LGBT people, appropriating terms
          • Claiming acephobia doesn’t exist, aces aren’t oppressed
            • Claiming acephobia is homophobia
            • Claiming acephobia is misogyny
        • Exclusion, gatekeeping
        • Sock Puppets
        • Having your words twisted, misinterpreted, taken out of context
        • Claiming that ace = straight
        • Being sexualized
        • Being accused of having privilege
      • Increasing mental health issues, suicidal tendencies
      • Being pressured by partner
      • Coercion
    • Claims & Accusations
      • Claiming asexuality isn’t real
        • Claiming that asexual = not human
        • Claiming asexuality is a symptom or side effect of medication
        • Claiming asexuality is dysphoria
        • Claiming that asexuality is a disorder, a medical condition
        • Claiming asexuality is a ‘white people’ thing
        • Claiming identifying as asexual is for attention, to feel special
        • Claiming asexuality is an excuse for being ugly, not being able to get laid
      • Being called abusive, selfish
        • Being accused of using people as sex toys
      • Claiming being asexual is homophobic
      • Claiming aces are a threat to children
      • Being accused of slutshaming
    • Insults & Other bad behavior
      • Insults
        • Being called prude, frigid
        • Being called a plant
        • Being called emotionless, sociopath, psychopath
        • Being compared to or called pedophiles, rapists, incels
        • Being called evil, demonic, sinner
        • Being called unnatural
        • Being called sick
        • Being called a waste
        • Being called a slut, whore
        • Being called a turbovirgin
      • Bad treatment
        • Being treated less than human
        • Being called or made to feel broken
        • Being made fun of, mocked, not taken seriously
          • Fake claims & comparisons
        • Being made uncomfortable
        • Asking invasive questions
        • Being treated like a child
        • Spreading rumors
        • Ignoring boundaries
      • Invalidation, being called a liar
        • Claiming to be to be too attractive to be asexual
    • “Fixes” & Violence
      • “Fixes”
        • “Fix”
          • Suggested “fix”
          • Attempted “fix”
        • Conversion therapy
          • Suggested conversion therapy
          • Forced conversion therapy
        • Treatment
          • Suggested treatment
          • Forced treatment
        • Corrective rape and sexual assault attampts & threats
          • Corrective rape and sexual assault threats & wishes
          • Corrective rape and sexual assault attempt
          • Corrective rape and sexual assault
      • Violence
        • Abuse
          • Emotional abuse, manipulation
          • Sexual abuse
          • Physical abuse
        • Assault
          • Sexual assault & rape threats & wishes
          • Sexual assault & rape
          • Physical assault threats
          • Physical assault
        • Death
          • Suicide baiting
          • Death threats and wishes
          • (Attempted) Suicide
          • Attempted homicide
          • Homicide
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The Acehate Database

Documenting all those things that "don't happen".

  • Search by type of acehate
    • Misconceptions & Expectations
      • Misconceptions
        • Asexual = virgin, not having sex
        • Claiming asexual people don’t like sex
        • Claiming asexuality is celibacy or abstinence
        • Claiming asexuality is low/no sex drive, no libido
        • Claiming asexuality is a result of sexual abuse, trauma
        • Being called biologically unfit
        • Sexual attraction = only attraction
      • “Sexpectations”
        • Sexual availability expected due to being in a relationship
        • Sexual interest expected due to being a man
        • Sexual availavility expected due to attractiveness
        • Sexual availablility expected due to culture
    • Prejudice & Issues
      • Prejudice, discrimination
        • Issues at home
          • Issues with partner
          • Issues with family members
          • Issues with landlord
          • Being threatened to be kicked out
          • Being kicked out
        • Issues with friends
        • Issues at school
        • Issues at work
        • Issues with healthcare providers
        • Issues within a religious community or authority
        • Issues within LGBT+ community, with members
        • Being viewed as less than human, as robotic
        • Erasure, invisibility
        • Systematic oppression
      • Harassment
        • Bullying
        • Online harassment
        • Sexual harassment
      • Discourse
        • Gaslighting
          • Rape apologism
          • Disregarding being suicidal
          • Accusing of taking resources away from “actual” LGBT people, appropriating terms
          • Claiming acephobia doesn’t exist, aces aren’t oppressed
            • Claiming acephobia is homophobia
            • Claiming acephobia is misogyny
        • Exclusion, gatekeeping
        • Sock Puppets
        • Having your words twisted, misinterpreted, taken out of context
        • Claiming that ace = straight
        • Being sexualized
        • Being accused of having privilege
      • Increasing mental health issues, suicidal tendencies
      • Being pressured by partner
      • Coercion
    • Claims & Accusations
      • Claiming asexuality isn’t real
        • Claiming that asexual = not human
        • Claiming asexuality is a symptom or side effect of medication
        • Claiming asexuality is dysphoria
        • Claiming that asexuality is a disorder, a medical condition
        • Claiming asexuality is a ‘white people’ thing
        • Claiming identifying as asexual is for attention, to feel special
        • Claiming asexuality is an excuse for being ugly, not being able to get laid
      • Being called abusive, selfish
        • Being accused of using people as sex toys
      • Claiming being asexual is homophobic
      • Claiming aces are a threat to children
      • Being accused of slutshaming
    • Insults & Other bad behavior
      • Insults
        • Being called prude, frigid
        • Being called a plant
        • Being called emotionless, sociopath, psychopath
        • Being compared to or called pedophiles, rapists, incels
        • Being called evil, demonic, sinner
        • Being called unnatural
        • Being called sick
        • Being called a waste
        • Being called a slut, whore
        • Being called a turbovirgin
      • Bad treatment
        • Being treated less than human
        • Being called or made to feel broken
        • Being made fun of, mocked, not taken seriously
          • Fake claims & comparisons
        • Being made uncomfortable
        • Asking invasive questions
        • Being treated like a child
        • Spreading rumors
        • Ignoring boundaries
      • Invalidation, being called a liar
        • Claiming to be to be too attractive to be asexual
    • “Fixes” & Violence
      • “Fixes”
        • “Fix”
          • Suggested “fix”
          • Attempted “fix”
        • Conversion therapy
          • Suggested conversion therapy
          • Forced conversion therapy
        • Treatment
          • Suggested treatment
          • Forced treatment
        • Corrective rape and sexual assault attampts & threats
          • Corrective rape and sexual assault threats & wishes
          • Corrective rape and sexual assault attempt
          • Corrective rape and sexual assault
      • Violence
        • Abuse
          • Emotional abuse, manipulation
          • Sexual abuse
          • Physical abuse
        • Assault
          • Sexual assault & rape threats & wishes
          • Sexual assault & rape
          • Physical assault threats
          • Physical assault
        • Death
          • Suicide baiting
          • Death threats and wishes
          • (Attempted) Suicide
          • Attempted homicide
          • Homicide
  • Search by type of source
    • Perspective
      • Personal stories
      • General ace experiences
      • Caught in the act
    • Medium
      • Surverys & Studies
      • Blogs & Articles
        • Tumblr
      • Facebook
      • Instagram
      • Twitter
      • YouTube
      • Whisper
      • Other
    • Submissions
    • Language
      • English
      • Spanish
      • German
      • Italian
      • Portuguese
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