Letters to an Asexual #46 (“You’re too pretty to be asexual!”)

This is #46 of a series in which I read correspondence between me and people who have questions, comments, or–more often–misconceptions about asexuality.

In this video, I cover why our physical appearance should not be understood as either a signal for sex or an excuse for why we can’t get sex. Our orientation isn’t dependent on how other people feel about sex with us.